Life changing.......
Those were the words the HR rep used. This is a life changing event today. Yes indeed it was.........After almost 20 years with Montgomery County, PA, I was laid off this past Valentine's Day. There had been significant budget cuts in the County, and with the specific programs we managed in our department. I knew things were getting tight. So I guess I was one of those adjustments to balance the new budget. I would have preferred a 2-week notice instead of a 3-day notice. But, as my former director said, they have no legal reason to do so. Others with more seniority had been let go in other departments as well. So, unfortunately, I was in good company.
Needless to say, some of my focus changed from enjoying every bit of the city, to, now I have to find a job. I have focused on being positive about the change, making contacts and networking with people and organizations here in the city, where I wish to work. I am also focusing on working in the educational field, something I've been wanting to do in the last year and half. So, the good news is that I can start over. Do something I enjoy more or have been wanting to work in for some time.
There are other changes in the works. Jordan had applied to attend a charter school downtown. He got in per a lottery, since space was very limited. Then some paperwork needed to be submitted. We received the information on the day it was due, postmarked Feb. 17th, but received it on March 1st. Why? That concerns me? Why would that happen when we have been so excited to start a new school this fall. I asked for some consideration from the admissions officer. I called, left a message, dropped in to see her, and left all the information in person the next day, March 2nd. But we haven't heard from her. I haven't figured out what this experience is about or what's the lesson behind it, but I am very upset that he may have lost the opportunity to attend the school through no fault of our own.
It's been a tough few weeks. But I did manage to enjoy some of the city and events this past month. I had dinner with my friend Bina a couple of times. She is such a wonderful person, so kind and giving. I had lunch with gal pals at Benihanna, which was quite an experience. I went to Atlantic city with Steve. We had a nice evening full of dinner and dancing. We also had a great breakfast that included catfish at a homey diner there. I visited two of my favorite places to eat, Longhorn's and Freddy & Tony's. I watched some great movies; Safe House, Red Tails, and The Woman in Black. I visited the King of Prussia Mall, and got to dance to some Carnival music. I celebrated Valentine's Day at my favorite restaurant, Estia. I went to a friend's birthday bash and had lots of fun! I went to Baltimore with Jordan and visited the Science Center. I also got to go to a Sixer's game, which I had not done in a long time.
I have made it a point to enjoy these last few weeks, even though I am in transition and uncertain. I know that experience is a teacher, mistakes are lessons, and life is worth every minute, so I continue to move forward, no matter what the circumstances.
Thank you for the love and support.
